• Are frightened by your partner's temper?
• Do things you don't want to because you don't want to hurt your partner's feelings or make them mad.
• Apologize to other people for your partner's behavior.
• Have been hit, kicked or shoved by your partner.
• Go along with your partner's wishes because you are afraid they will get mad.
• Drink heavily or use drugs.
• Don't see friends or relatives because your partner told you not to or makes you feel guilty about seeing them.
• Think it is your fault when your partner treats you badly or hurts you.
• Have excessive calls, voicemails, and/or texts from your partner wanting to know your where abouts at all times.
• Alter the way you act, dress, or socialize because of your partner's jealousy.

There is help available!

• If you are a member of the SJSU community, you can contact our Counseling Services department 408-924-5910 for information, referrals and support. Confidentiality is respected.
• You can also contact these community organizations:
  • YWCA Support Network800-572-2782 (24-hour crisis line)
  • AACI Asian Women's Home408-975-2739 (24-hour hotline)
  • Next Door Solutions408-279-2962 (24-hour hotline)

Remember, intimate partner violence is a crime!

Report it to your local law enforcement. If you need assistance on campus, contact the SJSU Police Department at 408-924-2222.